What was your response to the string of allegations of Harvey Weinstein and the parade of other men who have been exposed for their decades of sexual wrong doing? Was it scorn…or nervousness?
If you said nervousness, you are not alone. Though the famous are the targets at the moment, many men like yourself, in all walks of life, have been assessing their past behavior for vulnerability of exposure. That is a painful place to live — hiding and hoping to never be found out for old or ongoing activity.
There is another way. You can set a new course and be set free from the drive behind the behavior and the lies that ensnare.
If the bad press which the accused are getting gives you reason to pause, know that in large part, if they had owned their problem before this moment and dealt with it privately and with integrity, they would not be in this situation.
Sure, there may be some difficult conversations and even repercussions, but having been on both sides of that black door, I can tell you that what you are trying to hold onto is stealing the real, rich life you could have from you, right now.
Making the decision to do something about it gives you a measure of control in the trajectory of your life and your legacy.
Leaving it under the rug for someone else to expose or discover can leave you with less than you ever imagined. Just ask Harvey Weinstein.
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