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Learn the signs of sexual infidelity, the unseen effects, and answers to common concerns.
Is Porn The Other Woman?
Your husband’s use of porn can be just a hurtful as an affair. We know. Distrust, anger, insecurity, and fear are common emotions in the face of this kind of betrayal.
When you experience a betrayal in your marriage, you need a wise, understanding counselor to guide you safely through the raging storms of anger, hurt, bitterness and devastation. We've made this journey. We are that guide.
You may be hoping for the restoration of your marriage. This is a real possibility when both you and your husband are involved in attending to your individual recovery, wounds, and healing. This the first step to bring about restoration of marriage.
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Written by Susan Allen, who has helped women for 20 years deal with these devastating issues.
Symptoms of Betrayal Trauma
MOST WOMEN EXPERIENCE:
- Intense feelings of fear since discovering partner’s sexual behaviors, occasionally too often.
- Feeling violated due to partner’s sexual behaviors.
- Avoids sexual contact with partner since discovering his behavior.
- Feels like it happened because she’s not good enough. She scrutinizes her looks and other women in a way she never did prior.
- Have recurrent thoughts about his actions, randomly triggered by environment, events, associations, and memories.
- After discovering partner’s sexual betrayals and infidelity, feels increasingly angry in response to partner.
25% of women are still experiencing these symptoms two years after discovery. If she doesn't work through trauma, grief and loss issues, these symptoms can linger and even escalate. We hope you join with us on your unintended journey. Take the next step and order your Healing Choice series now.
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" Though I know logically that I'm not the only one, it feels that way. I'm keeping it from my parents and only told one friend. I feel like I'm walking around half dead, and everyone is living their lives as usual, not having a clue. I'm afraid what others will think of me, or him."
In this specific crisis, we are very vulnerable to the judgement of others. It's understandable to proceed with caution. But isolation is also your enemy. It's important to have a few safe people in your life that you can share your circumstance with, and know you won't be judged. Even so, these loving relationships may not be equipped for the intensity of need for you to vent, work thoughts through, find answers and make choices. That's why Avenue small group gatherings were born.