GET HELP FOR BETRAYAL TRAUMA

Restore your life from the wounds of sexual betrayal in your committed relationship

Thank you for all you/your work has done that contributed to my healing. In particular, I am so grateful for your recognition of and need for healing from the trauma wounds that I and others have experienced. With thanks,

Delane

I am so very thankful to have found Avenue when we were desperate for help. Bill and I received so much support from your materials and our groups. We love what you and Clay offer to the Family of God.

Gayle

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THE THINGS YOU NEED RIGHT NOW

SAFE HELP THAT UNDERSTANDS

You've sensed something wasn’t right, just learned the truth, or maybe you've dealt with his behavior for years. Now you're ready for help. You're in the right place.

You need answers and direction to see your way forward. Each woman's journey is unique. You'll be guided to make the decisions right for you, for your own healing, and the possibility of restoring your relationship.

You deserve to benefit from talking with women who understand exactly what you're feeling and what you're going through. Only someone whose lived it truly gets it. Your shattered dreams and security, his broken trust and intimacy. Our group settings aren't just about sharing your pain, your group is the catalyst to break through isolation, depression, shame and blame and make big strides in restoring your life.

Most therapists and clergy aren't trained for these issues and don't have personal experience or understanding, inflicting more harm. Our difference? We were built from this experience and know what a woman needs. Our small restoration groups of women just like you are led by our trained facilitators who've been there, working through our time-tested comprehensive roadmap. This is the ideal environment for your needs.

SAFE BOUNDARIES

You deserve effective strategies that honor your need for a safe environment, without the chaos you may have been enduring. You need space for yourself to have peace amidst any ongoing deception.

Even if you are hopeful right now about restoring your relationship, boundaries are an ongoing essential for keeping it healthy going forward. Boundaries ensure safe limits so that healing relationships can thrive.

You need the tools to hold your partner fully accountable; you need enforceable boundaries. You will learn new principles which will put an end to the evasive or abusive interactions of your partner, and going in circles attempting to manage or understand his behavior.

You may need boundaries support when considering separation, if he is not willing to be helped right now.

Whatever you're experiencing, we have dealt with it, and we can help you in your situation. We help you to become equipped do what you have not been able, trying to handle issues in isolation, without the right information or process. We share our wisdom, our strength, and our hope to accomplish what one can't do alone.

Begin now. Discover what's possible for you.

RESTORE YOUR HEART AND RESTORE YOUR LIFE

When your relationship has been corrupted by your partner’s porn use or infidelity, we know the loss, hurt, anger and trauma your are living. We know how the deceit has shattered your reality. And we know this - Your life can be restored. There is complete healing for you. And restoring your relationship is possible when you're both committed to individual healing.

YOUR ROADMAP THROUGH

We’ve made this journey, we are your guide to restoration. We know you can overcome, just as thousands of women in your shoes have with our help. Whether you hope to restore your relationship or believe it’s over, we equip you with the crucial information you need, clarity, direction and God's wisdom for your future.

YOUR SAFE PLACE

One of our private Healing Choice Groups is your safe place. No longer isolated, you'll be understood, accepted, encouraged, and strengthened to take action. Our group settings are proven to help accelerate your individual healing and restore your life.

IMPORTANT THINGS WE EQUIP YOU TO DEAL WITH AND to HEAL

Emotions
Trauma
His Actions
Finding Truth

Safety
Boundaries
Responses
Consequences

Triggers
Fears
Chaos
Reactions

Self Care
Children
Healing
Joy

Forgiveness
Decisions
Restoration
What Next

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MOBILE GROUPS

Our Zoom Groups, led by Avenue Certified trained leaders.

meet from your location
small groups of 8-10 women
6 month process meeting weekly
$30 monthly dues

LOCAL GROUPS

Independent groups, led by Avenue Certified trained leaders.

Church, Counselor, Individual hosts
local & mobile-same group process
most are mobile due to lockdowns

MORE INFO ABOUT OUR GROUPS

You'll be a member participant in one of our renowned Avenue Healing Choice Restoration Groups, giving yourself a gift of a safe place and a powerful environment, becoming equipped and encouraged to deal with the many challenges ahead.

LOCAL GROUPS: Formed primarily through Churches to meet the need of the congregation and their community. Christian Counselors also offer groups, as well as Individuals whose Church was not ready to offer one. Groups are held in local church, business or private locations. These groups are offered both free and fee based, depending on the host requirement.

MOBILE GROUPS: Provided by Avenue to fill a big gap, the need for those that don't have access to a local group. These groups are provided through a monthly fee.

MOBILE GROUP MEMBERSHIP: Due to demand, we have limited availability of Mobile Groups. Enrolling in a membership ensures you a virtual seat at the table at the next available group. Your membership begins on date of enrollment, and stays active via a monthly recurring payment. You'll be given first choice of the available groups. If the next available group requires a wait, you'll be guided through our first steps during that time. We believe you'll be committed to stay the course, but you don't have an obligation beyond the current month you are in a group, you can cancel anytime.

GROUP SETTING: Each local small group has no more than 12 members. Mobile groups are conducted via Zoom, with no more than 10 members.

GROUP LEADERS: All our certified groups are led by Avenue Alumni of these groups. That means the leader has walked in these shoes through her own circumstance, has been through this group for her own needs, and has been vetted and trained by Avenue to become a Certified Healing Choice Leader. Some have lead groups for many years.

PROCESS: The group work is guided by The Healing Choice 3 book curriculum. This work was created and written for this specific need by Avenue co-founder Susan Allen. The work was born out of her own journey and walking alongside thousands of women, honing what we need for ourselves to heal and the possibility of restoration of our marriage. The curriculum guides through a six month process, meeting weekly.

DON'T GO THROUGH THIS JOURNEY ALONE. DO IT FOR YOURSELF. WE'RE WAITING FOR YOU!

Want to reserve a seat in a scheduled Mobile Group now? Space is limited.

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"Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed " Ecc 4:9

Avenue has been a real life saver for me – I’m so thankful the Lord led me to it. I had no idea where to turn and was given the name of your ministry from a counselor who lived in Boston. Isn’t God good to lead us where we need to be?

Kelli

Thank you so much for your help. The Avenue group I attended back in California was so incredibly helpful. The Healing Choice books have been really helpful and I’ve met so many amazing women through that group. As you mentioned, they all say they learn new things every time they go through the books!

Megan

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I could not have done this alone! I found a support system with my Avenue women’s group. I learned the path to healing and restoration. Together there is hope.

S.M.

Thanks much for all you do and are doing for each and every one of us! We are grateful to God for your wonderful coaching, wisdom, discernment and care of us.

Mary

The Avenue group provided me a safe place to share my pain, and the guidebook provided the tools necessary to heal, based on biblical wisdom and a reliance on God.

S.A.

Great book to do in a study group or by your self. Great self discovery opportunities. Highly recommended if you have experienced a loss, have an addict in your life, or are just ready to move on.

Jolion

It helped me to sort through the pain and find healing through God’s word / support / love / prayer with other women who are suffering.

R.H.

This group saved my life and my marriage. I got the tools to help me through and gave me strength and pointed me to God. It was so helpful knowing others that understood me during this time.

G. J.

If your husband has hurt you in the most painful way but you want to see your marriage saved/redeemed, this group will give you the tools and comfort. I love the area on forgiveness and prayer-so huge.

S.B.

The leader could relate to the women in our group because she has been there too.

R.O.

The Healing Choice Guidebook gave me more answers and solutions than I ever dreamed possible. This group was a safe place to bring my issues, pain and sorrow and pray for God’s wisdom and leadership while finding support and understanding with those on the same journey.

A.L.

In our group we all have become close and have been all healing together, and really getting to know each other. We all enjoyed the material and have benefited from this study. I appreciate you and the study! This truly is a great study, and I’m excited to see where God leads in the future! 🙂 Thanks,

Rachael

I want you to know that your books and the avenue support group was truly a God given blessing to me and my family! We thank you from the bottoms of our hearts! God bless you and your family,

Katherine

I couldn't be more grateful for your services and the incredible support you provide to so many in need. You play a huge role in the effort to end the sexual addiction epidemic in this world and that is incredible.

R.M.

I received more than I hoped for, it really felt like an in depth Bible study. The Healing Choice study had just the tools and topics I needed. Thank you.

R.L.

The group seems to be progressing in the study. I appreciate the information shared in our WhatsApp group because even if I can’t participate in the conference call, I can always pray for specific needs. Thank you for assisting in making this remote group a possibility.

Lorna

I am very happy with my group – the leader Jennifer does a great job. I am encouraged in the fact that the ladies are sharing Scripture as they tell how they are handling things. You can’t go wrong pointing to the Bible! Jennifer keeps us on track during our weekly phone call – she does it exhibiting grace and compassion.

A.B.

Most helpful resource for healing a woman's heart.

Cyndi H.

Excellent study guide for women healing from personal betrayal by their husbands or who are involved with pornography or affairs. Best used in a study group with other women.

Kathy

Susan’s book has changed my life. I wish I had read it before dating, getting married.

S. B.

Really dives in to what matters - and from a Christian perspective.

Lisa S.

This book is excellent!!!... it has been very helpful!!!!! The Healing Choice Guidebook is important to read, first, before doing the study, if possible. May the Lord bless you on your journey of healing!!!!!

Vickie C.

GET HELP FOR BETRAYAL TRAUMA

Restore your life from the wounds of sexual betrayal in your committed relationship

THE THINGS YOU NEED RIGHT NOW

SAFE HELP THAT UNDERSTANDS

SAFE BOUNDARIES

Begin now. Discover what's possible for you.

IMPORTANT THINGS WE EQUIP YOU TO DEAL WITH AND to HEAL

JOIN A HEALING CHOICE GROUP NOW

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LOCAL GROUPS

"Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed " Ecc 4:9

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